Whether you call them boobs, boobies, tatas or gazungas, the chest is one of the most erogenous zones on the body. Boob play—or boob sex, as it’s sometimes called—is a great way to add variety to your sexual pleasure.
To make a boob job even more arousing, try combining it with oral and penetrative sex. To get you started, here are five boob-based tips from sex experts:
1. Brush your boobs on his face
A man loves to brush his lips against a woman’s nipples. It’s a very sensual action and it’s an instant turn on. Try it and you will see.
The nipples are packed with nerves. They’re an easy erogenous zone to play with and it may help to boost arousal for other areas of the body. Try rubbing the areolas, then stroking and tracing the nipples. When you’re ready, add some pressure and increase the pleasure by pinching.
Some people are nipple fetishists, but not everyone has this particular preference. Women of all shapes and sizes can enjoy nipple play. You can also lick your nipples, or suck them. Another fun option is to squinch your boobs together and let him put his erect penis between them. This acts like a thrust and will give you orgasms. Some people call this boob sex and it’s not only exciting for men but it’s also orgasmic for women as well. It’s like the cilantro of sex acts. It’s cool but not essential. However, you should always talk to your partner about their sexual boundaries and preferences before launching into any new sex act.
2. Tease him
Men go crazy for boobs, so you should tease them as much as possible. Start by kissing their neck and jawline, then move your hands up their body. Rub up and down their rib cage, arms, and chest, focusing on the area right below the nipples.
Don’t forget to play with the frenulum (the spot on the underside of his penis where the shaft meets the head). This erogenous zone is packed with nerves, and touching it causes the pelvic muscles to contract in that “I must have you now” way.
Also, grap his penis with one hand and use your fingers to stroke the other hand across his perineum — the part of his body that lies between his balls and his ass. Using this technique in a rhythm can really heighten the sexual tension and lead to a mind-blowing orgasm. He’ll want to repeat the sensation over and over again. Then he’ll be in the mood for your more explicit pleasures. You can even lick the tip of his penis while you’re doing this to up the sexual intensity.
3. Put your hands on him
Men love to be commanded during sex and this is one of the hottest things you can do. Tell him to put his hands on your nipples or breasts and gently move them up and down. Then whisper in his ear that you want him to do something even sexier—have him put his erect penis between your breasts! This type of sex is called boob sex and it can be pleasurable for both partners. It’s a great way to add a new dimension to your sex game and it can be even more pleasurable if lube is involved.
Before trying boob sex, make sure you and your partner discuss your sexual boundaries and preferences. “Boob sex is more intense than regular sex, so it’s important to understand and communicate your feelings and desires with your partner,” Bedbible sex expert Isabelle Uren says. “It’s also a good idea to watch porn about boob sex to get some ideas.” And remember that, as with any sexual activity, you should use protection and take an STD test before jumping into mammary humping.
4. Let him put his penis between your boobs
There are few things that turn a man on more than boobs. That’s why boob sex, also known as titty f*cking, is such a popular sexual act for men.
Boob sex is basically exactly what it sounds like: It involves the insertion of the penis between a pair of breasts, ideally lubricated, says Isabelle Uren, sex expert for Bedbible. The dude then slides his member in and out, “like a hot dog sliding in and out of a bun over and over again,” she says. This can be arousing for men of all sizes and ages.
If you’re a little nervous to try this at home, you can always ask him to do it in front of the mirror. Just be sure to let him know you’re not there to hurt him, and to make it even more pleasurable for him, lick his d*** and move your boobs up and down his d*** with them while he’s doing it! Suddenly, your boobs will be more than just something he looks at. They’ll become a part of his body, and that will turn him on even more.
