Incorporating a variety of techniques can enhance breast and nipple play. For example, incorporating ice can send chills throughout the body to increase sensitivity. Oils and lotions can also increase arousal. Using a nipple vibrator can provide an extra boost of sensation.
And remember to pay equal attention to both nipples. Many women enjoy licking, biting, and sucking both of their nipples for pleasure.
1. Licking
Licking is a sexy touch that brings an intriguing mix of sensations. It’s wet and slimy when you lick it, but then it warms up and feels silky in the mouth. Try tracing circles around her areola with the tip of your tongue and then switching to sucking. This can be very arousing and it’s important to pay attention to your partner’s reactions. Some women are more sensitive than others, so it’s a good idea to start out light and gradually increase the intensity.
Another great thing to do is to kiss the nipple. The tingle you feel on your lips will likely transfer to hers, and it’s a great way to build up the intensity of the nipple play. You can also kiss the area below her nipple, or even the whole breasts, to add an extra sensual layer to your session.
If you want to kick things up a notch, try using mint or other foods that will give you a tingle on your tongue before you start licking her nipples. The tingle will make the nipples feel more intense, and the licking will be even more arousing. It’s also important to focus on both nipples instead of just one. The nipples are a very sensitive erogenous zone, so it’s important to treat them with care.
2. Sucking
If you want to take the licking to the next level, try sucking her nipples. Nipples are perpetually warm, slightly moist, and silky-smooth, a combination of sensations that many women find wildly pleasurable. You can start by tracing circles on her areola with your tongue and then gradually move down to sucking the nipple itself. Sucking is a great way to increase pleasure and turn her on, as the sensations of touch intensify. If she starts moaning, you know you ’ve hit the mark.
Nipples come in all shapes and sizes, and can be found in people of both genders. When sucking the nipples, there is a similar release of oxytocin to that experienced during direct clitoral stimulation. It is even possible for some people to have nipple orgasms (5).
The nipples are also highly sensitive to touch, and can be stimulated with flicks of the tongue, alternating with circular movements and a slow rhythm. If you’re feeling particularly adventurous, you can even slide your dildo or penis between her nipples to create an additional frictional sensation. You can also use a fan to direct cool air towards the nipples, increasing the sensations of touch and the air’s temperature. Nipple play can be a great way to get a woman to lose control of her body, especially when paired with other foreplay techniques.
3. Biting
Women’s nipples are incredibly sensitive. While some may love a bit of gentle biting, others find even the tiniest bite to be painful. To avoid pain, you should always get your partner’s ok before using teeth on her boobs. If she’s ok with it, you can start by gently licking the outer edge of her breast and then moving your tongue around in a flicking motion. After a while, you can try rolling your tongue between her nipples to create an orgasmic sensation. Just be sure not to create a vacuum seal or you’ll cause her nipples to bruise. Instead, you can lick and suckle her nipples for even more orgasmic pleasure.
4. Touching
Women’s nipples are sensitive. And if you don’t pay attention to her body language, you could end up biting or sucking too hard—which is not a good thing. To be safe, always look at her face to gauge how much she enjoys the sensation of you touching her breasts.
She’s likely to respond positively if you gently caress her nipples and areola with your fingers. If she likes it, you can increase the intensity of your touch by applying a little more pressure.
It’s important to remember that the nipples are only one part of her breasts and that the entire area around them is a sensitive erogenous zone. If you focus all your attention on her nipples, it’s possible that she won’t be as into your play with her boobs.
Try massaging her neck and shoulders before you start playing with her nipples to help her loosen up and relax. This will set the tone for your play and help her get ready for what’s to come. You can also use a nipple arousal cream, such as Sensuva Nip Zip Cooling Nipple Balm or System Jo Titillator Nipple Arousal Gel, to make her nipples even more sensitive and ready for suckling. If you want to really get her nipples suckling, consider using a nipple sucker. Just remember to never forcefully erect her nipples—it can be very painful.
