Whether it’s a regular part of your play or a consensual touch, breast stimulation is an important and worthy pleasure goal. To ease into the area, experts recommend starting with less sensitive areas and gradually easing into nipple stimulation.
Kiss her nipples to create the sensation of hot and cold and explore the texture. This will turn her on as she anticipates nipple play.
1. Caress her nipples
Nipples are erogenous zones – meaning they house a lot of nerves that feel extra good when touched. Like other areas of the body that can cause orgasm, nipples need to be “warmed up” and slowly stimulated in order to reach their peak. Start by touching the nipples lightly, and then gradually build up to stroking and massaging them. Make sure to use lube or lotion, which will add a slippery sensation that amplifies the pleasure. As she becomes more turned on, you can also play with her clitoris by gently rubbing or licking it.
As with other sex techniques, different methods work for different people. Some girls enjoy rough sensations, such as pinching, nibbling, and nipple clamping. If she’s okay with it, you can even suck her nipples – just make sure to use a safe word if the pressure is too much for her. You can also incorporate temperature play by rubbing her breasts and nipples with an ice cube, which increases sensitivity and creates a cool, hard sensation to the touch.
2. Lightly blow on her breasts
The skin around her breasts, especially the nipples, is full of tiny hairs that are highly sensitive to touch. Gently blowing on the area can tickle these little hairs and turn her on. You can also use your hands to lightly trace lines across the nipples and areola. Make sure your fingers are trimmed so you don’t cause any discomfort.
When you’re ready for a little more intense boob play, try pinching her nipples with your thumb and forefinger. Slowly increase the pressure until you feel her pleasure peaking and ask if she wants more.
Remember that it’s not just her nipples that are erogenous—her entire chest, the back of her neck, and the small of her back are also sexually stimulating areas. So don’t forget to tease and caress other parts of her body as well. And if you want to take things even further, try using a vibrating nipple clamp like this one. It’s safe and effective!
3. Gently trace her areola
Each nipple has around eight hundred nerve endings, and many of them are highly sensitive to sexual touch. One of the best ways to play with a woman’s nipples is to lick them. This can be done in a number of ways, from tracing circles with the tip of your tongue to flicking the nipple with the flat part. Try alternating these different strokes with your lips and experiment with pressure to find out what feels best.
Licking is a mix of sensations—it’s wet, slimy, and hot, but it also cools down and gets dry as the saliva evaporates. For even more pleasure, you can lick the area around her areola. This is especially effective when you have a slippery finger (lube up!).
You can also try rubbing the area around her areola and breast with large strokes, but avoid touching the nipples until you’re at a higher stage of arousal. You can also lick and gently massage the clitoris, located near the top of her vulva. This is a little more difficult because it’s covered by a layer of skin called the clitoral hood.
4. Squeeze her nipples
It’s well-known that nipples are an erogenous zone, which means that stimulating them can make a woman feel extra hot. However, many men don’t know how to use this to their advantage.
You can start by gently touching her nipples with your fingertips, and then slowly rubbing and massaging them. If she wants more, you can try pinching her nipples between your thumb and forefinger. Be careful not to squeeze too hard, as nipples contain milk glands and sensitive tissues, and rough handling can cause pain rather than pleasure.
Once she’s comfortable with your touch, you can move on to using your lips and tongue to lick and suck her nipples. This is a great way to introduce her to the idea of breast play without coming on too strong.
If she wants to take it a step further, you can move on to feeling her nipples with your fingers, then your palm, and finally her areolas. Don’t forget to be mindful of her nipple piercings so that you don’t accidentally snag any jewellery.
5. Draw her nipples out
Many women love having their nipples and breasts fondled, but it’s important to know how to do this right. The nipples and breasts contain a lot of sensitive nerves, and stimulating them the wrong way can cause pain and discomfort. However, if you know how to fondle her nipples and breasts properly, it can be a great sexual pleasure for both of you.
One way to draw her nipples out is to use the thumbs of your hand to massage her breasts. Start at the base of her nipple, then move toward her collarbone. You can also gently press and massage her nipples with your index finger to make them harder.
You can also lick her nipples for a cool effect or directly suck them to get her going. Sucking her nipples stimulates blood flow, which makes them even more sensitive. Try alternating between sucking her nipples and massaging them for a full-body orgasm. You may even want to consider getting her a nipple piercing to help her feel more comfortable when you’re drawing her nipples out.